What is the difference between good sex and bad sex? A bit of a tricky question because in reality, only you can know that. Each individual will have a different perception of what good sex is to the next person. It’s like food in a way, you might like bacon with sauce and others don’t, therefore, give sauce to the hater and they will see this as a bad thing rather than good.
The best way to explain this is to go off what is supposedly big turn offs in the bedroom, knowing what you must and must not do at the beginning, during and after sexual intercourse will help avoid upsetting your sexual partner. Displease this person and thumbs down it is and very likely a Facebook rant about their bad sex experience. Not everyone’s partner might embarrass this way online, but their friend might. Everyone has a friend they confide in so get it right.
Bear in mind, what someone might love done to them between the sheets the next person may not and freak out. Get to know your partner’s likes and dislikes beforehand. The quick fumble in a back alley may not be a time that gives you time to ask questions, nevertheless before making a move ask are they up for it. If you get a positive response go ahead, but an indication of apprehension, forget it.
Also, a time to act sensibly. Wear a condom to avoid an unwanted pregnancy or a sexually transmitted infection.
Sex mistakes women make:
1. When the man turns over on his side after sex he is not ignoring you. He’s done his lovemaking and now tired. The vast majority of men don’t connect when sexual intercourse is over and women shouldn’t see this as a bad thing, but most do, unfortunately. Leave him alone and let him sleep. Act smart as tired men don’t perform well especially if those unfinished jobs around the house still need doing.
2. If you’re not happy with the shape of your naked body don’t be moaning to him about it. You may bet he isn’t unhappy about. Covering yourself up is not what he wants’, he needs to see the goods. Fewer layers are every man’s dream so let him crack on.
3. As much as men love sex and stats have proved they think about sex every four seconds, they don’t like to be pestered for it. Bullying can kill his desire to have sexual intercourse.Sex mistakes men make:
4. Most guys’ foreplay includes giving big wet sloppy kisses and a quick grope. Okay, this is fine, but foreplay is about many tender actions. You have the whole naked body of your partner to explore, so aside from hands use your tongue as well. Don’t put a restriction on that tongue let it roam freely. Start from the ear to the neck, working down to the breasts. Your partner’s response allows you to know if she is enjoying this. Foreplay is a necessity for women.
5. As eager as you may be to get down to business, find out what turns your girl on. Good sex is about pleasing. Some men after satisfying themselves believe the job is done. Don’t be selfish and think of your partner.
6. Another typical sex mistake men make is acting like they are a sex symbol or a god. Don’t spoil the moment. Be yourself.
7. If you tend on using sex gadgets and sex toys, ask if this is okay. Kinky isn’t for everyone.
8. Bad hygiene is the biggest turn-off.
9. Communication a key factor. Talk things through with your partner. Get him or her to open up about their feelings on sex. You may be pleasantly surprised to hear what they have to say. If their opinion on certain sexual acts is good, that’s great, if it is not it isn’t the end of the world. At least now you have an indication of what is wrong and how your partner feels and therefore you can put right. Now you have no reason not to provide your partner with good sex.
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by Kacy Carr
