Any man who wants to attract women cannot underestimate the importance of personal grooming. You should always put a high priority on personal grooming anyway, but if you want some chicks to notice you, then you definitely must not neglect your sense of personal hygiene!
Besides putting a high emphasis on grooming, men can also complement that with a sense of being well-dressed. If you have struck out with women too many times for your liking in the past, you really ought to address two areas: your personal grooming and how you dress.
You have to evaluate how you look because women sure will! Ask yourself the following, all-important questions: Do you take a shower at least once a day? Do flakes of dandruff appear on the collar of your shirt? Do you remember to apply deodorant? How are your eyebrow and nasal hair? Do you even think about trimming them every so often? If you have never asked yourself these personal-grooming questions, then chances are pretty high that you likely look and smell a certain way that… leaves a lot to be desired.
If you take care of all the items on this checklist well, then you can be assured that your success with the ladies will vastly improve. Here is a list of what you should make your number one priority as far as your personal grooming is concerned:
Washing your hair
Taking a daily shower
Brushing and flossing your teeth
Washing your ears
Wearing clean underwear
Using an inoffensive-smelling deodorant and cologne
Plucking stray hairs from your eyebrows and the bridge of your nose
Shaving or at least trimming your facial hair
Wearing fresh clothing
Clipping your nails
How to dress well
Personal grooming and dressing well complement each other so they have to be handled simultaneously. First of all, wear clothes that fit you well, not baggy clothing that falls beneath your waist to the point where everyone can see your underwear! Fight the urge to wear loose-fitting clothing to hide an unfit body because clothing that fits you well appears flattering on your frame. Matching your clothes is also key, as is accessorizing to increase the style of your look. Watches, necklaces and even bracelets can be nice, low-key touches that women will take note of. Finally, dressing to fit your personality is memorable because it will present women with a consistent package: How you dress will be an indicator of your personality.
Lots of men don’t pay that much attention to their hair, which is a pity since a great hairstyle can score you big points with the ladies. Know this: Even if you don’t pay much attention to your hair, women sure will if you have a unique hairstyle. Hair is symbolic of many things: power, wealth, confidence, etc. Thus, don’t ignore your hair, and make an appointment with a stylist to explore a fashionable, new hairstyle for you. It sure is worth the extra expense in the extra attention from women it will garner you.
by Tyler Duncan