Cunnilingus is the best method known to bring a woman to orgasm. Statistically, you have a better chance to make a woman come through oral sex than by any other method. That is because the highly sensitive clitoris can be directly stimulated and massaged, with total attention focused on this area.
With oral sex for men, giving blow jobs is much easier by comparison. Fellatio for guys is a walk in the park next to cunnilingus.
Nevertheless, it doesn’t take a degree in biology to master all the cunnilingus techniques you will need in order to give your woman an orgasm. The intensity of her climax, and therefore the chance that she will return the favor for you, will depend on the amount of effort you are willing to put in to make the oral sex experience something she will adore you for.
1. Take Your Time
Most men (and some inexperienced bisexual or newbie lesbian women) tend to rush into cunnilingus without any warm up. Have some patience, and restrain your initial lust if you can. But don’t worry, if your woman does not suffer frigidity and responds well to your first probings, then she will soon cut loose in fits of passion that will allow you to be firmer with your oral sex techniques.
2. Start with Foreplay
To get your woman in a sexy mood, it may help to be romantic. Giver her plenty of kisses and cuddles beforehand. Also, it’s a good idea give her nipples and breasts some prior attention before you go down on her in earnest. This can be in the form of hand or oral stimulation.
3. Be Prepared for a Taste Sensation
Not all women have the same vaginal odors and tastes. If you are eating her out for the first time, then be prepared for anything. If she hasn’t had an intimate wash (douche) for some time, you may be in for a shock. Once your relationship is established, however, you will either
- be comfortable telling her to freshen up her genital area in advance, or
- get used to her taste and smell – even if she hasn’t washed for some hours.
4. Use Your Fingers First
Before you attack your woman’s vaginal area with your mouth, give her a bit of a massage around the clit and labia with your fingers. If she can come from this alone, well done to you. It will make her all the more eager for you to give her oral sex as soon as possible.
5. Use All of Your Mouth
As with blow jobs for guys, giving a woman head is a much greater erotic experience for her if you are prepared to use your lips and teeth as well as your tongue. Every now and then give her a little nibble on the clit and labia. Some women can take more pressure with biting than others – ask her to tell you if the sensation is too intense for her. Blowing on the vagina can cause other amazing and orgasmic sensations.
6. Don’t Concentrate on Her Clitoris Alone
Some women are extremely sensitive in the clitoris, therefore be prepared to leave it alone from time to time and give other parts more attention. It can drive some women wild when you insert your tongue into the vagina itself, gently probing inside her.
7. Rub Her G-Spot
While you are licking her clit and labia, insert a finger or two and gently massage her g-spot (the soft, spongy area on the upper side of her vaginal wall). For some women, this is the key area to inducing female ejaculation. If you rub her g-spot in just the right way while performing cunnilingus, you may get a spray of female ejaculate in your face. Be ready for this! Some women who thought female ejaculation was an urban myth even surprise themselves at their innate ability to come like a man when their g-spot is stimulated perfectly.
8. Use Sex Toys
While performing cunnilingus on your woman, the use of a vibrator, g-spot stimulator, and (if she is open minded and willing) even anal beads and butt plugs can make the experience mind blowing for both partners. For something totally unusual, put an ice cube in your mouth while you lick her out and she will be writhing in pleasure.
9. Learn From Lesbians
A great learning tool to improve your knowledge of how to perform cunnilingus is to read erotic articles written by lesbian and bisexual women, and also to watch adult movies starring real lesbians. Even straight adult movies are okay if the men doing the going down are experts in their work and not just trying to get pleasure for themselves.
Employ these oral sex techniques and your woman will be eternally grateful. One final thing, the more you practise, the more you will learn exactly what she likes.
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