So you want to know how to attract women, huh? Well, if you’ve come to this article, I’m sure you’ve tried a few things including the tried and true “growing a pair and just doing it” (aka the stress and failure inducing seduction method). And I think that you’ll be glad when I tell you that here, I’m not going to offer you such advice. Rather, here I’m going to suggest you use a form of magick in order to learn how to attract women: the law of attraction.
Now, I don’t think about the law of attraction exactly like most people that teach it. The way I see the law is through a blend of NLP and chaos magick. And I’m going to prove to you that everything you do is a magical ritual.
But before you think I’m a far out woo-woo writer, hear me out. Have you ever noticed that when you go to do something, you follow a set of steps and that that set of steps is supposed to consciously or unconsciously give you a result? For instance, consider going out to the club. Many people consider going to the club, invite some friends, spend time getting ready (hair, face, clothes, cologne… all have their own rituals), discuss their goals for the evening with their friends (in most guys cases, talking up their game to an absurd level of confidence even they don’t believe), then go and try to make it all happen. And if they fail at their goal, then they feel lousy, but why? Because their magick spell didn’t work. They did the steps, but didn’t get the result–and that’s lousy.
But here’s a more specific example within this. If someone goes out, but lacks the confidence to actually talk to a woman, then they’re also bound to fail–though, they’ll likely beat themselves up about it later because again their spell failed. However, this one gives us a deeper opportunity to look into a spell in a specific way.
So, we’ll discuss a guy, we’ll call John. John is lonely and has been single for almost a year. He doesn’t really think that girls will like him much and he knows he doesn’t have much to offer (has a broke down car, little money, and lives with three roommates). But his friend drags him to the club anyway, and then razzes him about not talking to women. So, John looks around for a woman to talk to… but as he looks around, he begins to see women that wouldn’t like him. Women that’d reject him because he’s too broke. Women that are really looking for a more handsome guy. Women that’d never go for a guy like him…
But what’s so special about this? John did a spell on himself: he made himself unattractive and rejected himself before any of those women got a chance to. Was he right that they would have all rejected him? Maybe, but probably not. Chances are at least one of them would have talked to him for awhile. The sad truth is that most women get objectified and hit on by guys that disgust them more often than they’d like and would actually just like to chat with a few nice guys once in a while (and very often would like to do that regularly).
It’s unfortunate, but so many people push away people that are attracted to them. And so rather than seeing rejection everywhere in the world, the person is just rejecting everyone in the world. But if you flip your mind state toward positive results and trying to find someone great (and remember that you’re a great person the right women would love to be with).
So, why would you want to use the law of attraction in your love life? Well, it gives you a great imaginary playground where you can imagine the kind of women you want in your life and affords a great opportunity to push aside the negative self-talk, beliefs, emotions, and actions you take that sabotage you. (Plus, it’ll help you to develop faith in yourself).