In love tarot readings, the Temperance Tarot Card is the card of patience, cooperation, balance and moderation. She urges us to not act compulsively. Instead her appearance is always an indicator that it is a time for us to stop and think. This holds particularly true when we are contemplating our romantic relationships.
If you are in a relationship, and you draw the Temperance card during a love tarot reading, then there may be a need for cooperation and consideration. You and your partner may need to explore ways to bring harmony back into your relationship. One way to do this is by thoroughly examining where your relationship is struggling and coming up with a solution as to how you can increase your levels of communication and sensitivity towards each other. The Temperance card is often can mean that it is important to compromise with your partner in order to achieve balance and harmony.
If you are single, the Temperance card always asks that you take stock of your own behaviors. If you are seeking a relationship you may need to examine your feelings and behaviors towards intimacy and romance. Something may be off balance or you may have some inner conflicts that need to be worked out. You may need to take some time and work on your self first before love will be able to enter your life.
It’s also important to remember that the Temperance tarot card is also a spiritual card. In many cases the Temperance card urges us to quit using your own self-will to manage our lives. This is particularly true when it comes to love. We may need to learn to be patient and to trust the process. This may even be a time to turn things over to the Divine and trust your faith. Know that in the end love will find you if you keep your heart open to it.